I am a bridesmaid for my friend next year, along with some other close friends. We started thinking about ideas for her hen do a while ago, with her sister. We decided to go to a place which she loves but is about five hours drive away, to get a cottage and do some activities.
Anyway, since then I have found out I'm pregnant (first baby). I think some of the girls have a fair idea as I've suddenly stopped drinking, which isn't like me. As long as everything goes well, this means I will have a nine week old baby to take with me on the weekend.
I haven't told anyone yet, as I'm only about 9 weeks so have been keeping quiet and hoping I could tell them all in a few weeks. However, her sister is really keen to start finding and booking somewhere and asking for confirmation so I'm not sure what to do now.
I'm fairly sure that I would be ok taking the baby along. We're not planning a huge night out and I'm happy to sit out of any adventurous activities. Do you think I should say something now though? My DH says it's not fair to take a baby who might cry all weekend but there's no way I would leave it at home for three days!
It seems so very far away at the moment! I'm not sure what to do.
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Sunshinie · 27/10/2016 15:36
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