Hi, this is my first time posting on anything like this so please be kind! We have been given the go ahead to start ivf at the end of this year and coming 35, I feel like its a blessing I don't want to turn down. But me and my partner have come in to financial difficulties as his start up business has gone bust. If we carry on as we are we will be ok in a few years as I earn good money. Problem is I am self employed and have no schemes in place for maternity. We don't have family close by to help with child care. Are we being totally irresponsible thinking about starting a family? My other half is happy to be a stay at home dad so I can get back to work quickly but I am starting to worry about things way ahead in the future. I would really value peoples honest opinions about this. Thanks
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