Ive been casually seeing a guy since the end of April. I had a week where i messed up my pill and had sex. I took the morning after pill and thought nothing more of it and continued my pill as normal. 6 weeks later and no period i discovered im pregnant. I told the father the night i found out and without really thinking about it i agreed to an abortion.
This wouldnt be my first. I had one during a long term relationship in March 2015. Since then i wouldnt say i regret my decision because at the time as soon as i found out i felt so disgusted and scared i just wanted it to go away asap, but i do regret thinking it was my only way out and the guilt has been heavy. Having known what i do now about terminations i feel too scared to go through another one and feel emotionally im not strong enough to carry two abortions on my shoulders.
I work in the nhs at a hospital and my last period was literally my first day working there. Does anyone how i could make this pregnancy work? I havent even informed my doctor of my pregnancy. My parents dont know and the father thinks im arranging a abortion and at the same time my twin sister is 12 weeks pregnant. Since finding out i am also pregnant i feel asif its ruined how happy i am for her. Before my news i was the happiest proudest aunty alive and now im terrified ive ruined her pregnancy with my unplanned one. I know ultimately my family will be there to support me but this not what they wanted for me. Im so confused and worried about luterally everything right now. Any words of advice would be appreciated and very open to pros and cons of keeping the baby
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Confused, pregnant and single at 26
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Stupidgirl1990 · 22/07/2016 13:21
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