Had a very traumatic first pregnancy, labour and post natal complications. Dont want to go into too much detail, but important facts are severe pre eclampsia, EMCS that did not go so well, an infection in uterus followed by PTSD. Decided I would never have another baby as was a fairly horrific experience.
10 years later I am now 21 weeks with baby 2, new hubby to be, very excited about being a mum again with an amazing partner I could not ask for more from.
I had decided on ELCS to avoid the chaos that happened last time, totally dead set on it.
Saw obstetric consultant yesterday who said he totally understood where I was coming from, understood my anxiety (I was jabbering like a total basket case through appointment) and would support my ELCS if that was my decision.
He then said " I want you to consider sitting here in front of me at 38 weeks, as healthy as you are now, no different to how you are now just a bigger bump. No pre eclampsia. Would you still choose to put yourself through a serious operation for no real medical reason? Taking into account the recovery and potential complications. Think about it and we will discuss it further on in pregnancy"
I left appointment and burst into tears (I'm not a crier.) floods of tears again last night. I just do not know what to do. He spoke too much sense, I wish he had not been the voice of reason. Fuck fuck fuck fuck!!! Is how I'm feeling right now. Anyone been through this??
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fucking consultant did his job too well
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zoobeedoo · 21/07/2016 14:01
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