Hi please can you post anonymously. My partner and myself are really wanting to have a baby, we have been together 6 years. however I'm looking for advice because I have been in my job for a year, but I have no contract, so I wouldn't know if I'd get maternity leave or not. Also, I am wondering if I should get a new job first and settle in there for a few months because the people I work with I don't always get on well with, they class things as banter to me but take jokes way too far and I end up upset and crying and always paranoid il lose my job for being rubbish. I would like to get a new job but then it's delaying this whole process of having a baby for at least another year or so. What advice can you give and what would you do? Thank you x