Had a very difficult and complicated pregnancy and due to have an ELCS soon. Have been advised this could still end with me and/or baby in ICU.
I'm very frightened. I'm also struggling around people keeping asking me the due date. I just feel I want to keep it private and prepare for what's ahead.
DH insists he wants to tell his family of ELCS date. One of them puts everything on their family social media and has no regard for my privacy. I suspect they may well turn up on the day or afterwards without waiting to be invited. I also don't want the pressure and expectations of everyone waiting for info then having to inform them of bad or difficult news. My fears are well founded.
This is causing arguments between me and DH and making me stressed and upset. He says he doesn't like being vague every time his parents ask him the due date.
I am livid and upset that he is ignoring my feelings and fears. Please help.
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MusicIsMedicine · 25/05/2016 08:58
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