Hello,
I am 32 years old and I got married 8 months ago. My husband and I are very happy enjoying our married life and never really though about baby.My all life Ive been thinking that I wouldn't have kids.
We went on our honeymoon last month and found myself 5 weeks pregnant few days ago. We need to make a decision without having much time.
We are worry to loose some freedom but my husband is open to keep the baby. He is being very supportive and dont want to put pressure on the decision.
I am myself very worried that I would become someone else in someone else life, where my new world turn around nappies and doctor appointments. I am so scared about it all.
Some women just know they want a baby, some know they dont want kids. Myself, I really dont know. I got a good job and we can assume a baby financially. Im certain that I will bond easily with the baby once there but for now Im still thinking about abortion as I cant answer the question: Why are we having kids?
Does anyone had a similar experience? What questions would you ask yourself? Can we be cool parents and still carry on a social life?
Thanks for your help :)
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Grainedesesame · 14/03/2016 07:38
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