So I'm 24 wks and really struggling with stress and anxiety.
Had few issues with scans. As it stands everything OK but got to have 4 weekly scans to keep an eye.
I know I'm not unusual in being convinced something is wrong with baby but these issues are making me even crazier.
We're also buying a house taking on a fat mortgage.
Which ties into work - I have full time job as a manager and a long commute. After DS1 they kept on my mat cover then made me redundant so I am very anxious that I work my arse off and make myself indispensable at this place. Am launching a huge project which I desperately want finished before I go on mat leave so I have that under my belt. I need this job for the house at least for a few yrs!
I have a three yr old DS and husband with a job that takes him away a lot.
And am trying to do a diploma so that if I end up jobless again I have a good Cv to freelance with.
I also have got SPD only mildly but been banned from running which is my usual thing to keep me sane!
I know everyone has their own stuff going on, and none of these issues are really huge, but I struggle with stress and low self esteem anyhow and this pregnancy is only serving to make things worse
Also not been intimate with DH in over a month which i hate but I feel so wretched I just can't - hating not exercising and the worry about baby is making me so stressed.
I guess I just wondered - is it normal to feel so stressed? Any relaxation tips or ways to try to get myself put this put of worry?!
Is it worth speaking to midwife or do I go to GP?
DH is trying to be supportive but also says my attitude is taking all the joy out of this pregnancy. I hate that it's affecting things with him :-(
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So stressed and anxious - how to chill out?
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Pagetta · 22/02/2016 20:28
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