Hi all,
First pregnancy here, due on 30 March. Very excited, a little terrified.... I guess the usual cocktail of emotions....
Anyway, I'm currently debating when to start my maternity leave. I'm lucky enough to be able to take six months, but obviously I'd like to spend as much of that with the baby as possible.
That said, I want to balance having time with the baby with not pushing myself too hard at work towards the end. Like many of us, I have a pretty demanding job that requires occasionally long hours and a lot of concentration. I'd rather go out on a good note having completed a proper hand-over with my maternity leave cover than hang on too long, be a bit exhausted, fed up and maybe miss something or just leave on a less positive note.
A bit of time to myself to get organised before the little one arrives too could be great, but I'm also wondering whether actually, I'd be better off in work with all the distraction than sitting around by myself getting lost in my own head towards the end.
The last factor floating around my head is that very often, members of my family go late and end up being induced two weeks after their due dates. If I stop work 2 weeks/10 days beforehand and then end up going well past my due date, will I resent all of that 'wasted' time with my baby at the end of my maternity leave period?
Decisions, decisions.... I'm swithering and dithering here, and I have to send my forms off to HR this week indicating when I want to start my leave.
So, ladies, I'd be very grateful if you could let me know, based on your experiences, what you'd recommend. Did you work right up to the end, or did you stop a week or two beforehand? Were you happy with your choice? What, if anything, would you do differently next time out? Many thanks for your advice.
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Advice gratefully received - when would you recommend I start my maternity leave?
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HappyInL0nd0n · 12/01/2016 23:20
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