I just need a rant really and a bit of advice. I'm pregnant and I am seeing the same midwife as I did with my last pregnancy at my GP. She is the only midwife available at the surgery. The only problem is I cannot stomach her. Throughout my last pregnancy, she was disinterested, forgot my name times (understandable in the early days, but at my 40 week appointment?), asked what gender my baby was at every appointment, and just generally couldn't seem more disinterested. She never once asked if I had any concerns or questions, and when I occasionally did ask a question (it was my first baby), she would sigh, look at her watch and hand me some leaflets which she told me to look through. I also had severe sickness until 5 months, which I told her about but she just said its normal. A few weeks later I ended up in hospital and found I was severely dehydrated as I couldn't keep anything down. I couldn't wait till my baby was born just so I didn't have to see her. Even when she came round to my house after DS was born, she rudely said 'am I not going to be offered a cup of tea then?' 2 minutes after she'd walked through the door (my partner was busy talking through details with the HV who turned up 10 minutes beforehand, and I was changing my DS). She then said of my labour 'it sounds like you had an easy one then'. Unbelievable. I couldn't wait for her to leave. Anyway, now I'm pregnant again I have to see her again, and I got greeted with 'oh it's you is it?'. I dread my appointments, feel uncomfortable whilst there and feel as though I can't voice any concerns I might have. Is there any way I can see another midwife without changing my GP or is that the only way to make sure I don't have to see her again. I've been at the same surgery for years so I feel comfortable there, however, if the only route is to change GPs I would do so without hesitation.
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