i'd be going a bit crazy if i had a hard job (i've had those in the past), thank goodness i don't
but i still resent having to be here when i've got so much else on (won't bore you with the details but a large part of it is having to manage essential refurb to make house habitable for the baby) cos there's no one else to do it but me (single).
It just hacks me off that i can't take annual leave, as i need to add it on to the end of my maternity leave, as many women do.
It feels like a total pointless farce me going to work when there's so much other stuff to do. This baby is planned, it's complicated but I'm dreading the hard work of bringing a baby up to the point where they're a vaguely rational child that you can communicate with, I need all the strength I can get as a single person who's already been through hell to get here and society forcing me to work at this point will leave me so drained that by the time I have the baby, that even if i don't struggle to cope, it will take me years to recover, if i ever do.
Sorry to moan but i'm sure i'm not the only one who feels that work is just a meaningless waste of time that you're doing in order to get maternity pay (which I'll doubtless have to end up repaying as the chances of me being able to return to work are probably nil). There's another thing i'm not looking forward to: grappling with the benefits system, managed to avoid those incompetent fools/understaffed workers for a long time.....
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anyone else fed up of having to work if you really have more important things to do?
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trian · 04/10/2015 14:30
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