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Second child ?!

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Amerz26 · 02/09/2015 07:28

Hi,

I am new to this and dont really know where to start but basically have a 6 year old son and and at a really tough stage as to know whether or not to have a second child. I had a pretty rough labour and took me a long time to get over it but am feeling really confused and struggling to come to a decision.

Any advice ? Xxx

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Emileelogan · 02/09/2015 19:40

Go with ur heart I too have a 6 year old son and am 8 weeks pg :) my fella and I discussed having another and it happened pretty quickly lol.. Can u talk to ur other half? Xc

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Amerz26 · 02/09/2015 21:57

Thanks for replying and congratulations. Yeah hubby is so calm and relaxed about everything but says he is happy as we are but I know deep down he would be delighted if we had another. It is me that just feels so confused, I get quite anxious about things sometimes and that doesn't help but don't want my little boy to feel like he's on his own when he's older (sounds stupid I know !). If you don't mind me asking why did you decide to have another baby ? Xxx

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Emileelogan · 02/09/2015 22:12

Course not... We kinda just decided that we could and we have sisters and brothers so wanted him to have s sibling... Just one though... No more rooms left lol.... hope you decide soon just in case over thinking drives u mad lol xx

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Amerz26 · 02/09/2015 22:35

Ha ha overthinking is my main problem lol ! Thanks for the chat though, nice to know I am not going completely mad. Best of luck with little one xxx

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Amerz26 · 02/09/2015 22:41

Without sounding really cheeky - do you mind if I ask how old you are ?! Xxx sorry if that sounds rude ! Xxx