Me and my boyfriend have been together for 18 months now. we moved in together four months ago and i am now 6.5/7 weeks pregnant. We earn a decent wage between us with about £600 disposable income a month so we live comfortably. we are 22/24 so not in any way to young and we are both fully committed to each other.
Ever since me and boyfriend got together my mums and mines relationship has become very distant. she has made no effort to get to know him and tells me horrible things like 'i hope you realise because his brothers got downs syndrome if you have children i bet you'll have a downs baby to and it'll be all his fault' which is 100 per cent rubbish as we have no more risk of downs than anyone else. she is unable to accept the fact that i am now an adult and just says i've abounded her and i don't care which is so untrue as i've tried numerous times to speak to her but she just shouts and screams at me so we can't ever just talk.
i have the full support of my dad and my grandma (dads mum). Her reaction to my pregnancy is shes very 'angry and upset' and 'you have made your bed now lie in it' and 'sit down and have a long hard think about what you have done' my poor dad is having to put up with her ranting and shouting at him about it and i feel so guilty like its my fault for causing him all this stress i have no idea what to do when she will not allow a conversation?
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Emmalbae · 02/08/2015 17:32
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