Just had my 20 week scan, all is well, it's a boy. But surely I should be doing more?
I don't know whether to shell out £200 for the NCT antenatal classes or if the NHS ones would be fine. I don't know what my birth preferences are other than 'survive process with healthy child and as little pain and damage as possible'. According to the brick of leaflets I was given at my first midwife appointment, it's too soon to get the whooping cough vaccine, or the flu jab, or to start perineal massage. I don't know what hypnobirthing is. On the one hand a waterbirth looks like it could have benefits but I don't really want to sit in a pool of blood and waste. I don't know how to look after a newborn or what to do as he grows (weaning when? How? Teething when and how? What exactly do you do once you have a baby?)
On the one hand it feels like information overload, endless books and websites about pregnancy and postnatal life, and yet on the other I just have a midwife appointment every couple of months, no more scans, NHS classes if I choose them and is that enough?
Does anyone else go weeks at a time without really doing anything except taking a weekly bumpy and wondering what the hell is wrong with the situation?
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ShebaShimmyShake · 30/07/2015 22:12
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