2 weeks late

[SUE82]

Hi I am 25, I have been trying to conceive for 3 years now. I was due my period 2 weeks and 3 days ago, this is very unusual for me to be late as I have checked all diaries and I am regular 26-28 day cycle. I have took 4 neg tests and a neg test with doc - with whom I am going back to see tomorrow. Only sympton I have is feeling abnormally bloated and also more tired than usual. Should I be hopful or am I just bein over paranoid???????

[lollipopz]

Hi Sue don't really have much advice for you except good luck, and hope everything works out, have you tried a first response preg test?
Is the doctor going to do another test, or give you a scan?
My friend had 11 neg tests and never tested positive till 10 weeks! keep posted on how you get along xx

[moomimin]

The generall rule is a negative could be a positive but a positive is never a negative.

Best of luck, you probably shouldn't get your hopes up. It is very unusual for the tests to be inacurate.
I had a friend though that never got a positive pg'cy test with her second. Even at the doctors and with bloods. She had to pay to confirm her pg in the end with a private scan at 22 weeks. By then she was convinced as she could feel the baby moving. The doctors couldn't give her an explanation either?

[lulumama]

there have been stories from other mnetters who have not had a postive test show up for weeks ! as lollipopz has said! do you know that you had sex at the right time? do your boobs feel tender?

i do hope you get the news that you want.....fingers crossed for you....

have you any investigations into why you are struggling to conceive? you don;t have to answer if too personal..there is a seperate discussion board called 'conception' where there will be a lot of support from women in similar situation...

[SUE82]

1st time on site amazed at quick answers thank you all.

I have tried 2 x first response tests but i took those within the 1st week of being late for the 'quick response'. I am unsure what the doctor's next step will be he didnt seem to interested on my last visit - I had to ask for the test. Think I will request a scan depending on what he suggests. (My orginal doctor who I was seeing has left - just my luck didn't want to be over paranoid patient with new doc?

I have got my ovulating days to a tee, and this month I felt really positive for some reason around ovulation???

Failing all I have an app with hospital coming up for an x-ray to use a dye to see if any blcokages.

I will keep posted about after docs app. Thanks Again xx

[lollipopz]

good luck at your app xx

[SUE82]

Well b4 my app with docs yesterday I started spotting. Explained everything too doc (who I found least helpful!) then later on in night my cycle started. I am completly bemused as to why after 3 year of regular periods I was over 2 weeks overdue :-(

I have a gynea app in January so will take things from there - think I will chil out over the xmas!

Thank you all for your kind support.

Sue xxx

[lulumama]

hope all goes well for you...