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Think I'm having a miscarriage

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MetallicInk · 27/03/2015 06:43

I'm really sorry I just need to let it out. My dh has left for work and I can't bring myself to tell him until he's home. We were so desperate for this to be a healthy pregnancy and I feel completely devastated.

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Bumpingalong84 · 27/03/2015 06:46

So sorry to hear this are you not going to a&e? or call an EPU near by? How far along are you? Hugs

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Nolim · 27/03/2015 06:46

Op have you called your gp/midwife?

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TheProdigalSquonk · 27/03/2015 06:47

Call him. A) you shouldn't be alone right now and b) he'll want to be with you.

If you're in pain, take some paracetamol. Put your feet up (literally) and try not to worry, it may not be as bad as you think

Xx

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MetallicInk · 27/03/2015 06:51

Was at the epas at the hospital yesterday for a scan after some light bleeding. Thought I was about 7+5 along but they could only see the sac. Said it was either a pregnancy a lot earlier than my dates suggested or the start of a miscarriage.
Have woke up this morning with more blood and a kind of cramping in my stomach. X

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33goingon64 · 27/03/2015 06:58

Call him. This isn't a time to be brave on your own. You need someone to make you drinks and hot water bottles and to talk to.

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MetallicInk · 27/03/2015 07:05

I knew it was to good to be true. We had been trying for so long and finally come to start to believe we would actually have a wee baby of our own. I feel completely broken x

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Fatty12 · 27/03/2015 07:06

Aww i'm so sorry to hear this! Try not too worry to much and just have loads of rest

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perfectlybroken · 27/03/2015 07:16

So sorry to hear this. I had 3 consecutive miscarriages and know what its like. I now have 2 dc though, so there is hope.
xx

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MetallicInk · 27/03/2015 07:36

I've phoned dh and he's on his way home.
Sorry for the depressing thread just didn't want to phone anyone in rl and wake them up with such horrible news

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gcerron · 27/03/2015 08:44

Ohhh so sorry about this, but the good thing is that you can get pregnant, maybe this was not the right pregnancy but you will have another with success this is for sure!! Let all your feelings out and I am sorry for both of you, I know also that feeling, I had a previous mc . all the best!!

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Eyre89 · 27/03/2015 08:49

Oh do not apologise for posting. I'm so glad you phoned your dh and he's on his way home. Support eachother. As gcerron said the good news is you've been able to get pregnant. I know it's no comfort to you now. So sorry for you having to go through this. I hope your husband is with you now xx

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scarednoob · 27/03/2015 09:00

Big hugs for you, so sorry you are going through something so stressful xx

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BumWad · 27/03/2015 09:03

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I'm glad you have contacted your DH and he is on his way. Are you going to stay at home and let nature takes its course? Make sure you have lots of pain killers

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MetallicInk · 27/03/2015 15:26

Been back up to the hospital they are wanting to rule out ectopic. To go back tomorrow for more blood tests and been told to just rest and take it easy.
Dh is taking good care of me.

Also just realised I posted this in the wrong place. Sorry.

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MetallicInk · 27/03/2015 15:27

Thank you for your messages of support. It's nice to hear stories of people who have went on to have successful pregnancies after mc. Makes us a wee bit more hopeful.
Thank you x