I'm so fucking annoyed. This is my second pregnancy. DP is not the father of my DS.
I found out the sex with DS and bitterly regretted it, even before he was born, and swore to myself the next one would be a surprise.
DP wanted to find out the sex of this one, but I really didn't. When it come to it at the 20 week scan, no one asked and the ultrasound technician didn't offer. After DP said he didn't ask because he knew how important it was to me (although after a private chat with my midwife before the scan, I knew that if I didn't want to know the ultrasound technician wouldn't tell the partner... Hospital policy)
Anyway, due to low PAPPA levels, I have to have an extra scan at 28, and 34 weeks. My 28 week scan will be next Friday. We are planning on bringing my DS (5) so he can see the baby.
He's just text me saying someone at work got the technician to write down the sex on paper and a bakery baked a pink or blue cake, cut it in front of the family blah blah blah... Would I like to do this 'amazing idea'
NO, NO I FUCKING DONT!
For a start, I DONT WANT TO KNOW THE FUCKING SEX, 2: my family do not want to know the sex so they wouldn't be there, 3: his mum and dad aren't together and he has no other family and they certainly wouldn't come together for a gender reveal so that would mean that the surprise is ruined for me, so we can cut a cake with just his mum and step dad there and then phone his dad to tell him.
What happened to knowing how important it was for me to not know? There's only 13 bloody weeks left, why can't he just wait!
I'm worried now he's going to put pressure on in front of my DS who is desperate to know and then my DS will get upset with me.
The 28 week scan is to check the baby is growing properly and the placenta is still working, not to find out the sex!
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DP is STILL bugging me to find out the sex (27w) :-(
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Letmeeatcakecakecake · 24/01/2015 10:35
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