Went to a series is NHS ante natal classes this weeks got NCT ones in January - due end of jan.
I was really pleased at how pro-natural the midwives leading the sessions were but I could feel that they found themselves in opposition with the doctors at times e.g. The midwives weren't keen on induction - doctors seemed to want to hurry things along, the midwives liked delayed cord cutting - the doctors didn't etc. they said several times that it was up to the birthing mother to stand her ground if she wanted to avoid induction, have skin to skin after a caesarean, not to have the injection for delivery of the placenta etc.
I felt quite anxious about having to be stubborn with doctors. Normally I'm a very stubborn old bird, but when you're vulnerable and scared you want to be able to trust someone 'in the know'. The midwives said doctors are so worried about being used, which I totally understand, that they make decisions based on this fear.
I came away thinking that I would go for a home birth. We are having a doula and we are only a very short drive from the hospital..
I'd be really interested in what your experience of classes was?
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How did ante natal classes make you feel?
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GingerbreadPudding · 20/12/2014 19:27
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