I've just had my c section booked for Christmas Eve. This is my third baby and there are various reasons why this is the best date for him to be delivered, so I am fine with that - I just want him here safely (nearly lost DC2 at birth).
I have two other children aged 4 and 6 and I know I am going to miss them horribly when it's Christmas Eve and visiting is over and I'm in hospital on my own and they are getting ready for bed at home and all excited, and missing them getting up on Christmas morning. Just thinking about it makes me feel upset! I am worried about the emotional impact of this on me following birth, which is hardly renowned for being an emotionally stable time!
Any tips on managing this? I am going with the 'it's only for one Christmas, it's best for the baby, I'll be home soon' mantra. And although Christmas isn't a huge deal to me personally at 4 and 6 it is so exciting for them, and that is the magical part and I will miss it and miss them. The midwives have said it is open visiting all day on Christmas Day but I have no idea how the baby will be, and how I will be, and obviously the kids are not going to want to be in hospital for ages, plus they and DH will be with his parents who will have their own timetable for Christmas lunch etc and are an hour from the hospital.
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C section booked for Christmas Eve - worried about emotional effect of missing my other DCs
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Wednesbury · 20/11/2014 12:59
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