So my boyfriend of 4 months already has a 4 year old daughter from a previous relationship. He doesn't want to have anymore children as it is hard work and he doesn't want to go through it all again. I am torn on what I should do. I want a family at some stage in my life but realise I am not getting a younger (I am 30, he is 32) do I stay with him and hope that he changes his mind? I understand we haven't been together long but I love him with all my heart and we are so good together in every other way. I honestly don't think he would even move in with me, let alone start the family that I desire. I am not saying that I want all this right now but I need to know that it is possible in the future. Do I cut my loses before I get even more attached or stay with the man I love?
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Chloecjc · 23/10/2014 15:24
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