I found out i was pregnant 2weeks ago nearly and both myself and my partner were thrilled, we had planned this pregnancy, although it did happen a little sooner than we expected.
To try and cut a long story short me and my partner split 1 year ago after DV..... Over the past year i was in a relationship with someone else which ended just before getting back with my ex, the Father of my 2 children and unborn child. We have only been back together for 2months now!!!
Everything was great at first but recently he has been very stand offish. We dont live together at the moment as we were taking this step by step, regardless of falling pregnant so soon, but when he has stayed lately he has been restless, getting up in the middle of the night and spending it on the sofa or just returning to his own home!!!
Anyway, i had a phone call from him tonight stating the reason he has been so off lately is because he cant trust me and thinks i am still in touch with my ex. I must state that i changed my mobile number, house phone number and deavtivated my facebook account so my ex could not get in touch, and he lives 4.5 hours away from me so no chance of bumping into one another!!!! Now he says he needs time to think and sort his head out.
When we got back together i emphasised the importance of ex's not coming up in conversation whatsoever and the fact i had been in another relationship could not get in the way of us starting over. He agreed on all of these things with no doubts at all. I dont feel he is being very fair at all. Not only am i an emotional wreck with every early pregnancy symptom going, which he also admits he doesnt understand, but he is confusing my 2 children too, one minute Daddy doesnt see them everyday, the next they are spending day in day out with him and now he is literally seeing them for an hour before they go to bed.
I just dont know what to do for the best now!!! He expects me to wait whilst he sorts his head out but im not sure this is acceptable behaviour.
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sianilovesbeingamummy · 22/10/2014 23:17
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