I'm in complete shock! Day 37 of cycle today, and still no P, so decided to get test, even though I always check my fertile / ovulation days and had sex once last month, test was positive and I did not expect that at all!
we have two boys (6 & almost 4), but last 2 pregnancies ended with MMC and early complete MC, so although I am feeling a mixed bag of emotions tonight, I'm also absolutely terrified
I'm utterly shocked, as a 3rd baby was not in our plans. I'm an OU Psychology student, and also my hub's carer (he had a Stroke) so my head's a bit mashed at the min.
I don't want to get 5 years down the line and regret not having a third, plus my hub's completely anti-abortion so we are going to go ahead, if all goes well, I'm just now going to be obsessed with checking everytime I wipe now!
I had my DS through IVF and thought I was done and dusted, couldn't face any more treatment. When he was one I got pregnant naturally with twins but it was mmc. Got pregnant again a year later, again mmc. Three months after that I got pregnant again, all three naturally, how bizarre after I'd tried to get pregnant for eight years with no success!! Anyway, that time, I was scared, very anxious time, but I got through it and now have dd who is five.
Try to stay calm, be kind to yourself, what will be, will be, good luck xx
Peppa, that is very reassuring, thank you so strange how our bodies work isn't it?! mentally, I feel like I want to grow old with three children, I guess a part of me yearns for those babies we lost, I think I'm quite scared too, because it's been almost 4 years now, my biggest worry is how I'll cope, as I tend to get very stressed very easily as it is x