Both my previous two pregnancies were found via poundshop preg test kits. The 'ingredients' are the same as the expensive digital ones, so I've bothered paying more than I need to.
Thing is, this time round, my poundshop test is showing one dark line and one faint. I'm only a day late. I'm also mid Forties and on contraception.
I didn't plan for more children but I won't consider termination. Also, I don't live with my current partner and he doesn't have children and has always said he doesn't want any, but he'd obviously stand by my decision if it ever happened.
The thing is, until about 6 months ago I was desperately broody and wanted a last baby, but since then I've had a complete turnaround and was enjoying looking forward to my kids leaving home and doing some travelling around Europe in my early 60s.
I have only done one test, I'll do another at the doctor's to confirm next week, but whilst my relationship is a good one I'm now terrified my partner is going to think I have let this happen on purpose, because I was so vocal about wanting a baby several months ago.
I admit I have even been lax with my contraception one or two times at most, I'm on the patch and you change it weekly, and once or twice I haven't replaced with the new one until a couple of days after.
Call me stupid, but I honestly thought at our ages and considering it was only those two times, I'd never actually get pregnant. I've been using contraception properly for weeks now, the last time that happened was around two months ago.
So, I suppose I need to know
a) do these kind of lines mean it'highly likely I'm pregnant and
b) how the hell do I tell a man who doesn't want children he's having a baby, particularly when I'm terrified he'll think I've done it 'on purpose'. I can swear on my two children's lives is is not what I wanted to happen.
Please, any views would be so welcome.
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One dark line, one faint line. I'm terrified. And too old! Advice please.
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TumbleweedOnspeed · 13/06/2014 16:37
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