hello all, first post here! I genuinely hope this isn't TMI but at the same time surely anyone clicking on a post with sex in the title will be expecting some, er, detail.
I know that pain during sex in the first trimester is common, but I was wondering if anybody gets it in the same way I do. Ever since I've been sexually active, I've noticed that the less frequently I have sex, the more it hurts; it's a bit like the first few days of riding a bike gives you a sore bum but then it stops hurting the more you, ahem, ride. Normally DH and I bang about once or twice a week, but since I've been up the duff that's dropped to about once every two weeks, due to my lack of libido and generally feeling sick and grumpy. The fact that it's painful puts me off even more, but I make a point of initiating sex every couple of weeks so that my very patient, kind hubby doesn't feel neglected or rejected.
Basically it's a sort of burning sensation close to the entrance of the vagina. I know it's not really to do with lubrication as we've bought some, I don't have a yeast infection, I really don't think it's psychological. I think it's because I'm not having regular sex but I can't find any reference to this phenomenon online. I don't know what I'm hoping for from this thread; mainly just a bit of support really, and to see if anyone else finds the same thing happens to them, to hear from and offer support to anyone else having painfully unsexy sex whilst pregnant and also whether it's true that your libido picks up again in the second trimester? Because that would be lovely.
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painful sex in first trimester
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microferret · 25/05/2014 07:52
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