Not sure if I'm posting this in the right place but me and DP are living seperately at the moment (no other reason that we both met and had our own houses) we have discussed selling up and moving 'after' the bub is born. We've spoken about it at length and I said it will be too stressful for me to move now. I stress over everything and worry so not an ideal time. DP has just rung me to say the estate agent is coming to take pics of his house on this week and its going on the market at the weekend. . Hes said if hes putting his up mine should to go up too & they could take months to sell anyway. I have two issues, what if mine sells first and really quick? And my mum has been amazing throughout my pregnancy so far and I feel guilty leaving her. This is her 1s grandchild and she can't wait. I'll feel dreadful if I move just as bub is born, shes been a great support and taking he/she away from her seems cruel (we want to move about 35 mins away) mum is now about 8 mins away! Sounds daft but I don't know what to do, can't say anyhting to my mum as I don't have the heart. Sorry to go on but I need some advise. DP is only wanting to do the right thing and be together and move somewhere with better schools etc but he wasn't having any of me waiting til after bub is here... any advise PLEASE?
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