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Eek....2.5 year old....11 week old at positive hpt..!

(12 Posts)
Rosebug258 Thu 03-Apr-14 08:08:46

Just as the title says, I have a 2 year old a 11 week old baby been feeling off for about a week thought I was just tired as 2 year old is not sleeping at night, past few mornings major adversion to coffee (had with both my pregnancies) took a test and definitely 2 lines!

Only had sex 3 times since birth of no 2 and used condoms each times, how the heck am I going to tell my hubby he's booked for the snip? I'm not sure what his reaction will be...! I hoping its positive one but not convinced

Please hold my hand and tell me all will be ok

GoooRooo Thu 03-Apr-14 09:16:05

Deep breaths! It will be okay!

I'm impressed you're having sex - I couldn't be arsed at 11 weeks!

Cannotbelieveit Thu 03-Apr-14 09:21:56

It will be ok. Don't stress. When can you talk to DH about it?

Pregnantagain7 Thu 03-Apr-14 09:23:34

I felt just like this when I got a bfp when dc3 was 16 weeks! I'm now 12 weeks and I'm fine about it (still have the odd moment of panic!) it will be tough at first but at least you get the baby part all done in one go and the close age gap means they will play well and you can amuse them with similar things.

It will be fine just give yourself time to get used to the idea smile

Rosebug258 Thu 03-Apr-14 09:37:18

It was his birthday weekend he reached the big 40, that's the only reason, as I'd had a few post natal complications and didnt really feel up to doing the deed!

I'm in shock I think

I could call him at work but I'm not sure how he will react to the news, if its a bad reaction at least he won't be at home for us to argue about it! On the other hand he could be over the moon we did briefly talk about having another...but decided for him to have the snip as we can't really afford another

My heads a bit all over the place today :-(

A 3 year old a 1 year old and a new born sounds rather scary at the moment!

Cannotbelieveit Thu 03-Apr-14 10:46:33

Not the same but I'm due in a few weeks and will have a 1 year old and newborn x your 3 year old at least can entertain themselves much more easily.

flippyflapper Thu 03-Apr-14 11:08:52

don't panic. my dd was 8 weeks old when I found out I was pregnant with twins.
I also have 2 older children too.

I freaked out and dh who was also booked in for snip was the reassuring one.

I freaked at the thought if a extra ine then it waa twins.

it all works it self out promise we manage and if we can aanyone can smile

Rosebug258 Thu 03-Apr-14 12:49:05

Think you can safely say hubby wasnt too happy sad he phoned me as I had not replied to a text he sent (was bathing the kids) and I just kinda blurted it out!! Silly old rosebug!

Ah well we can talk properly tonight when they are both in bed!

GoooRooo Thu 03-Apr-14 19:05:52

Oh dear. Hope the discussions aren't as bad as you fear.

Tranquilitybaby Thu 03-Apr-14 22:52:53

Hope talking face to face went better x

pmgkt Fri 04-Apr-14 08:00:47

How did it go?

Tranquilitybaby Fri 04-Apr-14 08:04:42

Hope all ok x

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