Hi, I am new to this but looking for some advice, apologies if I have posted this on the wrong board.
I had a routine scan on Tuesday (11wk 3) and was told there was no heart beat, had internal scan to confirm and was told baby size was approx 8wks. It's strange even though I have still nausea, sore boobs and heartburn I think subconsciously I might have known as I wasn't completely shocked. I desperately wanted this baby, we have a little girl and don't want a big gap. And have already had to wait longer than I had planned due to a colposcopy last yr.
I have opted for an ERPC but can't get it until Thursday. I don't think I could cope with medical management or natural. However I am worried about going back to work in the meantime in case I start to go naturally. But I feel a bit of a fraud staying at home :( I was sick at the start of the yr for 4wks and worried I am letting people down. I haven't had any spotting but I keep getting it'll cramps, every so often, but not sure if I am just focusing on my tummy and it's not anything really.
I would have been 12wks this Saturday so that's 4wks I would have been carrying around a little dead baby, which is really disturbing me, and I am not sure how long until your body naturally does it's thing. I was wondering if there is anyone out there who has experienced something similar. Thanks x
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Oakwoodmummy · 27/03/2014 16:07
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