He had a few jobs to do this weekend, jobs he's been putting off for weeks and have now built up. During the week, we had a plumbing problem. I thought we should... I dunno... Call a plumber maybe? No, dh wants to do it himself. Now he's got none of the jobs done, the house is in a right state, there are new leaks and he keeps turning the water off without warning me.
Now he's feeling all sorry for himself cos he's been at it all day and still some left for tmrw and I think he actually hasn't got as clue what he's doing! I suggested he take it easy tmrw and he said we can't cos we have to go to mils for sils birthday dinner like it was the worst fucking thing in the world!
Then he was saying 'im gonna be working all weekend and then back to work on Monday' whinge whinge whinge... So get a fucking plumber like I suggested.
Grrrr just needed to rant. 36 week's pg And not massively sympathetic. He always does this during the rugby too. We had a deal that I mind ds during England games And he takes him for Ireland ones (I'm Irish). Every week I've lived up to my end of the deal and let him watch his match in peace, then he fucks off to do something he wasn't supposed to do but is a big job so I can't complain. Today was a bloody big match too and I had ds for every second of it. I'm fed up of it 
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HelenHen · 15/03/2014 22:24
Oh no, I know what ya mean! Our neighbour never gave us money for fence panels either but they only owed us £20. Still... Cheeky bastards!
Next time I'll just call the plumber while he's at work and say nothing! Plumber quoted us £60, well worth freeing up your precious weekend! He got one of the jobs done, one, so now we're gonna have the same problem next weekend!
He hates leaving the house but how can he complain about his own sisters birthday like that? 
almost like I'm forcing him to go... I'm not... I don't care! I'd rather stay at home... Gonna have people commenting on my bump all day... But it's a family birthday, us go and ya bloody enjoy it!
Grrrrr!
He's not a plumber! Why would I take it upon myself to rewire the house? I'm not an electrician. We only moved into house in May and consider it investment as much as home and constantly discussed how we will maintain it to a high standard and not do things on the cheap!
He's still asleep! I'm gonna take ds and disappear to the park this morning... I can't listen anymore! Just wanna enjoy this last bit of pregnancy and all he does is moan!
Lol inglori0us, fuckwits indeed!
Btw the jobs I needed him to do aren't massive either, one is changing a fucking lightbulb but it's in too awkward a position for me, still a two minute job!
Lunch at 10am? Ah jaysus!
Well he's finished the plumbing... Such a fucking hero
Ha! I hid on the patio from the PILS this morning. I claimed I 'didn't know where everyone had gone' in my 3-bed semi....
Lol I hope it's a big patio
Dh made me laugh earlier though, he told our neighbours he has 'toilet problems'
Oh God he's at it again! We need dining chairs! I saw some on Facebook for a bargain and asked him if he agreed and when could he collect. He said at the weekend but if he has to do it tonight or tmrw that's fine! I asked the girl could we collect at weekend and she said tomorrow's better so I arranged it. Well now I'm only the fucking devil for doing that cos he has other jobs to do. I said I'd ask his sister cos she's good like that. He said no And he'll do it and went on and on about what a martyr he is. So I texted her and she said no prob! Now he said he's gonna call and cancel her tomorrow cos I've made him look shit to his family. I didn't... I explained to her that I'd arranged it and then said all the other jobs have come up and it would be great if she could help.
I'm probably being induced next week so these things have to get done. He's been really nice and supportive all day and this just came out of nowhere. I really can't cope with his fucking moods right now!
Let's bang their heads together alita
Seriously its Jekyll and Hyde here! I know he's under pressure at work and comes home to me nagging him but, did I mention I might be induced next week and I'm absolutely fucking terrified? 
I need to start feeling like things at home are under control... But they're not!
He's had these jobs to do for months, now the deadlines coming and I'm the bitch! Things aren't gonna b ed miraculously easier to deal with when we have a newborn.
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