Trying to organise my NHS antenatal classes is turning into a right farce.
At the booking appointment I was given a photocopied sheet with a location, dates & times, and other information about my classes and I was booked onto the appropriate course
At my first mid-wife appointment I was told that the information I had been given was wrong in both location and dates & times, but she hadn't bothered to bring the right details
At second midwife appointment (with a different midwife) I was told that classes were in April at the local community centre, but she hadn't brought the dates and times so I should phone the office and someone would give me the right details
I phoned today and was confidently told that the original details I'd been given were correct, when I queried this she got all flustered and said now she was confused and wasn't sure which location was correct, but that the class was definitely on a certain day and time, but I should double check at my next midwife appointment which isn't till April after the date and time I've been given for the first class.
How can I trust these people when they can't even tell me where and when I'm meant to be at an antenatal class? It's making me very stressed and a little panicky, if a midwife gets flustered and confused so easily what good will they be if a serious problem happens?
My first pregnancy ended in a late miscarriage so I'm extra worried about this one but in all my interactions with midwifes so far I've been patronised, dismissed and treated like an idiot and now they can't even get basic admin stuff right.
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Anxious and frustrated with midwifes
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KatraAllandra · 07/03/2014 18:33
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