Ok please no lectures! I know its sensitive!
I'm due next week with dc 3.
I tried breast feeding both dc1 and dc2 and mixed fed for a few weeks. However I did not enjoy it and struggled. I ended up going bottle after a while and never had any issues with either.
Both did great and that suited me.
This time I just want to be realistic. I have a dc2 year old and dc 4 year old. I walk everywhere at the moment and take dc2 to nursery every afternoon.
even now I honestly feel there are too few hours in the day.
I get stessed out if I haven't got what needs to be done done and I get t sit down for the first time about 7pm as that is when the kids go to bed.
Anyway. I'm stressing out now about what everyone is going to say if I say I want to bottlefeed straight off.
what makes it worse is that Dh s family always ask me(they're Nigerian) and would be highly unimpressed if I went straight on bottle. (Dh himself just leaves it up to me!)
I'm worried about getting remarks and lectures about it at the hospital too.
should I just stand my ground or tell them I Will try to keep them off my back?
and no, I have never felt guilty about it. I just would rather do what I know I can do and cope with in the situation.
what makes it worse is that dh's family always ask me about it worse(
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How to tell midwives I want to bottlefeed without a lecture.
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Frecklesandspecs · 20/10/2013 19:58
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