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I really need some help plz

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Nosh21 Fri 17-May-13 12:50:48

Hi I am 10 weeks pregnant, yesterday I had sudden bleeding and clots the size of your palm came out. I have been really worried. As I had period like crampings in my stomach. So I had gone to a&e with the clot wrapped in tissue and showed the nurses. They say that they cannot really tell if it's part of the baby product or just some blood clot. They then did a speculum on me and they said that the cervix is closed. But they cannot be sure until I hav had a scan. So I am booked in for a scan for tommorrow at 9:45am and really hope my baby is still there. As I had a ectopic at 7 weeks last year. And a miscarriage at 15 weeks this year in January. And this is my 3rd pregnancy and I really want it.... Please has anyone experienced this and what happened...

TobyLerone Sat 18-May-13 11:59:51

I'm sorry sad flowers

Be kind to yourself.

Alexandra6 Sat 18-May-13 12:03:28

I'm so sorry nosh

Agree with the post above, be kind to yourself, take it easy and don't give up hope x

Wonkytrolley Sat 18-May-13 12:12:17

I'm so sorry Nosh, you must be devastated.

Thinking of you x

Oh I'm so sorry Nosh. That's awful. Do you have someone with you?

Nosh21 Sat 18-May-13 12:16:22

The people am with they think everything s ok they don't know how I feel..... sad

Nosh21 Sat 18-May-13 12:17:35

I am devasted ... I really wanted a baby sad it's always happening to me sad .... First ectopic , second miscarriage at 15 weeks and now this ;(

Ebayaholic Sat 18-May-13 12:21:58

Oh Nosh I'm so sorry, do you have support?

RoxyLady Sat 18-May-13 12:24:00

Pls have faith! I had three miscarriages. One at 13 weeks so I know how horrendous and misheartened you must feel. Its hard to get up and keep going.
I am now 32 weeks pregnant. Take some time to look after yourself. It is possible. If you want to talk more just inbox me. I know exactly what you are going through x

Pentagon Sat 18-May-13 12:24:44

I'm so sorry Nosh, it's devastating I know...I've had 2 missed miscarriages, discovered at my 12 week scan - the babies were there but had died weeks earlier. I'm so sorry you're going through this and I know it doesn't make things any easier but it happens to a lot of women (1 in 4) and you're likely to have a successful pregnancy next time. I have a daughter and I am currently 16 weeks pregnant with number 2 so it can happen. Did you get any support at the hospital? There is also the miscarriage association and also several miscarriage threads here on mumsnet that will help you get through this. Take care of yourself, try again as soon as you feel ready and I'm sure you'll be holding a baby in your arms sooner or later.x

Pentagon Sat 18-May-13 12:29:03

Oh Nosh I've just seen this is not your first pregnancy so what I've said doesn't help much - so sorry :-( but you can now be referred and investigated for recurrent miscarriage if I'm not mistaken. Good luck!

SPK22 Sat 18-May-13 12:36:08

Take care Nosh21. Sending hugs and lots of love.

Nosh21 Sat 18-May-13 12:37:11

I know sad .................
I feel like everything is bad luck for me... sad
Coz I am married to a proper typical asain family and they don't fukawl about anything... Their like "back from hospital , ok. Get up and start working with the chores at home" sad I jus feel am gonna burst and pack my things and hed home to my mums house

TobyLerone Sat 18-May-13 12:38:36

Can you do that? Go and stay with your mum for a bit?

Nosh21 Sat 18-May-13 12:40:32

They ll be like if you wanna go .. Go for good ... Like starting an argument for no reason sad an am already depressed

rcs19 Sat 18-May-13 19:37:08

I'm so sorry, Nosh. As others have said, be kind to yourself. I hope you can go and be looked after by your mum without getting any hassle.

GoodbyePorkPie Sat 18-May-13 20:31:45

Oh no, I'm so sorry, Nosh sad

I would go home to your mum's. Sod the fecking chores. If they are so heartless that they actually mean you should leave forever, while you're miscarrying, then I'd be tempted to do so.

Nosh21 Sat 18-May-13 21:31:38

Thanks :/ I think that's wat am gonna do ... Coz it's carrying on for ages now.. And it's duin ma headin... Gonna pak my stuff tomorrow, if not then maybe tonight , I can't stand it ! sad

Nosh21 Sat 18-May-13 23:15:33

Hey jus wanted to know how soon can you try for another baby after miscarriage???

LandsN Sat 18-May-13 23:21:41

I had 1 af then fell again I am now 17 weeks pregnant good luck x

MaryannM Sat 18-May-13 23:26:08

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know it's little consolation right now, but do have faith, I've had 5 early losses and am now 26wks pregant with a healthy bump, so there is hope.

Apparently you are most fertile just after a miscarriage, not sure how soon after but it may be worth researching.

Good luck Hun, and be kind to yourself, give yourself time. Take care xxxx

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