(sorry it's REALLY long) Have just reached 39 weeks and have had really bad backache all night/morning, it got progressively worse. Then at lunchtime, went to the toilet and noticed A LOT of discharge. Phoned my midwife who told me it sounded like a show, take cocodomol and go into triage and assessment if it got worse. 3 hours later I went for a walk with my mum to see if I could ease it off a bit. By the time I'd got about 2 or 3 hundred yards, I could barely walk. She drove me into triage (DH was working) they took a sample and I went into the assessment room. I was nearly crying with the pain by then. Anyway, a midwife storms in, and starts giving me this lecture about how I should have phoned first, and how they would never have admitted me for "just niggling back pain" (NIGGLES???!!), and how I was "wasting her time". Apparently I was "lucky it was quiet" today. She didn't even ask me how I was, or introduce herself or ask me anything about the pain. I tried to explain that I had called my midwife, that I had a history of really serious surgery on my back, and that I'd had what my midwife thought was a show. I tried to explain that the only time I'd had pain this severe in my back before was when I ruptured my disc. She just wouldn't listen, and over the 5 hours that I had to stay there asked me 3 more times if I'd had any discharge, forgot my name twice, lost both the sample and my notes and used the phrase "well, what do you want me to do???" when I told her that I'd already had cocodomol and it wasn't working (erm, figure out what's causing the pain and make it go away, ie your job??!!??). Haven't even got to the bit where, after saying I was really nervous about internal examinations, they tried to give me a speculum examination when I was sitting bolt upright (unsurprisingly, it didn't work and was pretty f**king sore, I had to ask if they would lower the back of the bed thingy cause I couldn't move to reach the button which was met with a roll of the eyes) Have never met a healthcare professional that was so rude and uncaring and made me feel so small and stupid. So anyway, after 5 hours of pointlessness am home now, in bed, can hardly move and am so frustrated and angry. Am 39 weeks, and I can't cope with this level of pain for what could be potentially another 3 weeks. Have already been in hospital for some very impressive gallstones a fortnight ago (misdiagnosed as indigestion for 3 days. I've had some difficult farts in my time, but none that made me faint or vomit blood), progressively worse migraines and now, as a final indignity, seem to have developed frankly terrifyingly huge piles. Am just soooooo very very very hacked off. My Mum (who was there) has told me to register a complaint, but given that I don't think it'll make the slightest bit of difference; plus even if it did, I wouldn't want to be the cause of someone losing their job, however angry I am.
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