Last week i went for my 20 week scan. All's well, found out it's a boy. Very pleased by this, got what we ordered!!!!! Everybody thrilled.
Rang my mother to tell her.
- She hadn't even remembered i was going for my scan, but could let her off with that, she can be a bit vague at the best of times.
- She was absolutely gutted that it's not a girl!!!
I just can't understand where she's coming from. I already have "one of each" (dreadful expression!) so it's not as if she's never going to have a granddaughter, a boy is what we wanted, and were hoping for. How can she be so insensitive and let her feelings out like this? We live 150 miles apart, tbh sometimes it's not far enough!!!
I pray i never push my feelings onto my children like this.