Ok, so I know I should be proud of my blooming body, but just recently (I am 30+1) my bump has popped a bit - up until now apparently poeple were saying I was quite "neat" and depending on what I was wearing, poeple who didn't know rarely commented as I guess it was slightly ambiguous whether I was actaully preg or just a bit thick round the middle!
But oh my these last few days.... People have been asking when I'm due and when I say January, they look shocked as though I should be due much sooner and I have heard "wow you're huge!" and other such wonderful phrases! Thing is I don't think I am actually THAT big - I have seen women WAY bigger than me at this stage - I don't even have a proper outie yet, or a linea nigra or even a single stretch mark!
And yes I know they are commenting on my bump and not the rest of my body, but when they say things like that I feel like they're calling me a big fat whale! Do people not realise that it is NEVER ok to call a woman huge? Though I suspect that I may have been guilty of it in the past before I was preganant and knew what it felt like! I guess my logic was that it was ok as I was not calling the woman FAT, just commenting on how pregnant she looked, which I assumed was a positive thing. I now realise that this ain't the case! Don't get me wrong I love being pregnant and am fascinated by my changing shape, I just don't like the adjectives "huge", "massive" or even "fat" (yes one woman did use this one - and yes she knew I was pregnant and not simply fat) being associated with my body in any context!
Does anyone feel differently? Does anyone actually love being told they're massive?
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WHEN will people realise it is NEVER ok to call a woman huge - pregnant or not!
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RoxieP · 04/11/2010 09:33
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