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17 & 5 and miscarried

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wonderif · 27/07/2010 15:49

hi there sorry just want some advice, i went to midwife app today they couldnt find heartbeat, send me for scan no heartbeat baby had died.

any advice from anyone who has been there

i had some concerns and posted them when i did i wish i had of listened to the people that told me to go see midwife mind you it appears my wee bundle died at 13 weeks.

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sh77 · 27/07/2010 15:52

So very sorry for your loss. I have been there.

Have you looked in the pregnancy loss/miscarriage section under Body and Soul? You will get heaps of advice and support there. The wonderful ladies on that forum really helped me.

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Kiki84 · 27/07/2010 15:53

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Cadmum · 27/07/2010 15:54

I am sorry to read your post. Your head is bound to be spinning.

Have you been offered a course of action? Feel free to ask specific questions so that they can be answered as you feel able to handle the information.

I have been in your position 4 times and it is heartbreaking. Be kind to yourself.

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megonthemoon · 27/07/2010 16:00

Oh wonderif I'm so very sorry.

I have no experience of a late miscarriage but did have an early one and got lots of support from people in the Miscarriage section. It may be worth posting there too.

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serendipity16 · 27/07/2010 16:13

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

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wonderif · 27/07/2010 16:36

thanks i didnt realise there was a section on miscarriage, kiki84 i had stopped feeling the butterfly movements you feel early on and my sickness had stopped completely, just didnt feel pregnant as such.

thanks i will head over here

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