Hi all, this is my first baby and it could well be that i have expected too much from my midwife appointments but if i'm honest i don't feel very supported.
Basically all i've had is urine tests and the position of the baby and his heartbeat checked at each appointment. Not much 'talk' has occured, but i thought we would sit and discuss the birthplan together and about what feeding route i would like to go down etc. Most of the pages in my maternity notes are blank! I have brought up a few things, and been told to go to the doctors if concerned.
In the 5 appointments i have had, my midwife has been off sick 3 times and i have seen whoever is covering. She is now on long term sick and i will again be seeing whoever is available.
One of my main concerns is that at 36+3 i have put on 4 stone and am very nervous at how big the baby could possibly be. They said my weight has no bearing on the babys size, but no other comments. Can they not find a way of predicting his size/weight even roughly? I also have SPD and have just been told to write it on my notes so that someone can see it when i go into hospital.
I feel like i'm pretty much doing this on my own and have to get all my information from the internet. Is this normal?
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Palace39 · 23/07/2010 10:53
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