DS is 3.3YO and has never done one pee or poo in the potty or toilet!
It seems no matter what we do he will not do it, yesterday DP sat DS on toilet for 20 mins distracting him iwth toys so all was fine eventually DS got off and as soon as he did stood there and pee'd and poo'd his pants!
It really is getting at me now because DP's family are constantly picking about it saying things like 'well you should have done it sooner' and now DP is starting to say DS 'must be thick' or 'be bloody backward' and now it's my fault for not forcing him and when he has to go to school in nappies then I will start regretting being so lazy with it.
Now just about everyone I know with a 3YO have potty trained them before their 3rd birthday but my DS just cannot get it. I've tried putting him in pants all day, putting him on the toilet, offering rewards, bribery but nothing works as he won't even say if he needs the toilet he literally just wets or soils himself and does'nt utter a word not even to change him, if I let him he would wander around happily caked in it.
It is starting to get me down now becuase I feel like everyone is against us for this and blaming me, I've also had my gran tell me that he will just need to be forced into it whether he likes it or not ebcause everyone is probably talking about him being behind everyone else! Is it possible to force potty training?
What do I do? Can I try and encourage it along more or can I just stay in for a week and leave him in pants until he gets it?
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mamadiva · 04/10/2009 08:12
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