Hi,
I really hope I can get some advice from you all. My lo will be 3 in February, she has extremely good communication skills and showed various signs of readiness for toilet training. We started potty training in October and she was dry in the day bar nursery days ( completely didn't get it there for some reason). Anyway after 3 weeks she started having dribble accidents so I tried to remind her and encourage her to go to the toilet which seems to have had the opposite effect and cause her to have even more accidents. After 6 weeks out of nappies she was making no attempt to go to the toilet. We put her back in nappies to destress the situation and decided to try again after Xmas when my hubby was off work.
Fast forward to this week and our new attempt at training. We have tried a reward chart, big incentives like swimming and she just isn't bothered. She is deliberately wetting now so decided to ignore the 'accidents' and give praise etc when she went. This has no effect. She isn't bothered about having to change her clothes and clean up the wet carpet either. We even tried completely ignoring her for 10 mins after each accident which worked for a short time yesterday when we had the most success. Today she got out of bed with a new strategy of her own and wet every 10 minutes or so going through about 10 pairs of leggings in 2 hours.
I really don't know what to do. We know she is capable of going to the toilet but is clearly just refusing. Her behaviour is awful while going through this too and makes her an unlikable little girl.
Sorry for the essay. Would love to hear you're thoughts and advice. I phoned my hv who said they would assign this to a nursery nurse who would call in the next 2 weeks...not much help in the meantime. X
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Squiggles86 · 01/01/2016 20:26
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