DS1 is 3.9yo. He is a very bright, verbal little boy and has no problems understanding what is required, how to do it and where it should be done. We've been toilet training for over a year with one break back into pull-ups. He had, until last week, NEVER volunteered to go to the toilet but could be badgered/bribed into going. Some days no accidents (see bribing/badgering) but most days at least one accident, up to four not unusual. One accident per day is ok, in my book, four means he's either a) not ready b) doing it on purpose c) lazy
We've tried taking things away, giving him things, sticker charts, rewards, chocolate buttons, etc. Nothing is working.
He seems to get too engrossed in what he's doing and doesn't want to leave it to go to the toilet. Or, he lets a bit out and then is happy to sit there in it and won't go to the toilet. I've tried to be relaxed about it, to not let it become a power struggle but it inevitably has. He is VERY resistant to going back into pullups, but today, after a crap morning (literally) I insisted. He put one down the toilet, sulked and shouted for over an hour and then finally put one on. Now he seems quite happy in it. Am worried he's actually quite triumphant at not having to even bother to try now. Can ANYONE HELP ME?!? He's going to preschool in January so needs to be relatively dry and clean by then. AARRGGHH!
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webminx · 29/11/2013 10:26
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