It's weird and kind of difficult to explain. I was so huge and uncomfortable during the last few weeks of my pregnancy that I couldn't wait for it to be over, not being able to be on my feet for more than 10 minutes without excruciating pain was getting old fast. Along with the repetitive comments and questions from just about everyone. Then when I went into labour I wasn't really coping well with the pain and again I just wanted it to be over, I screamed and yelled and in a haze of gas and air induced hysteria I claimed I was dying 
Now DC 2 is 10 days old and I'm finding myself 'missing' the whole experience and the attention it brings. I miss being pregnant, I miss going to my midwife appointments and despite wanting to be home asap after the birth, I even miss being in hospital afterwards.
I don't understand it, has anyone else felt like this and does the feeling pass? Is it some sort of weird baby blues thing? I feel okay most of the time but every now and then I selfishly miss the attention from being pregnant and giving birth. I don't remember feeling like this with DC1, but then I had a completely different experience in terms of the birth and my stay on the maternity wards afterwards. I'm going to be signed off from my Midwife after the weekend and it seems so final. I'm feeling sad about it and I don't know why, like it's the end of an era. I just hope the feeling passes, it has seemed to have gotten better over the last week or so. I just feel kind of bad really that I've spent the past few weeks being fed up and over the whole pregnancy thing and now here I am pining for it to come back again 
Like what is all that about? Is it normal?
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imwithspud · 06/06/2015 23:42
I think it is; I certainly felt this way. I had a traumatic birth, and often wished I could go back and have a 'do over' of the last few months, to really appreciate the calm before the storm as it were, and redo my labour.
I suppose it's a bit like when you're young at Christmas, you spend so long looking forward to it, but then when it's upon you, you wish it was still to come.
I do still feel this way occasionally, and DD is 8 months, but I just remind myself that all of the things she has done, and will do, mean I should be looking forward and not back. Sorry if this is a bit disjointed, I can't articulate it very well.
And congratulations! 
Those first few weeks are so bloody hard, make sure you look after yourself too
I understand. I've just had DC2 (definitely my last!) and I miss the feeling of being cared for - by family, and midwife and hospital appointments. Like you say, it's the end of an era.
I don't think that's uncommon. And that's not to say I'm not cared for now, but that it's a special time being pregnant and having people coo over you (or in my case, gasp in horror at how big I was) and when that's over you feel kind of ordinary and insignificant again 
People coo over the newborn instead though and that's nice.
This baby is our last too, I do think that is contributing to the way I'm feeling. I didn't take any bump pictures this time round whereas I did with dc1 and I regret it now
I felt similar to this too. When I was signed off by the midwife and had to hand my yellow notes back I burst into tears
I think I just missed being the centre of attention and something 'special' - sounds a bit tragic now putting it in writing but I loved all the attention and care I got. And I missed hospital too!! Totally weird but normal I think OP.
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