Dh has been told that he needs to wait until baby is a year old. If I ever get half an hour where my brain is working I'm going to write to our local PCT to ask why they have unequal policies, they would have sterilised me during the c-section but dh has to wait a year!? Or I might just grumble and carry on taking the mini pill for a year

They did ask him about that and had the cheek to suggest I should be done! They were happy once they were sure he had considered everything, might be different in your area.

ps. he did faint twice while they did it!

..your brave dh though, what a star!

LJ, I sent my dh to enquire about the snip at the doctor's last week, he claimed that she said they won't consider you for a year after you've had a baby 'in case anything happens to it and you want another one'.

I wonder if he was fibbing, or if different areas have different criteria.

We managed the deed about a week ago. DH was brave and had the snip a couple of weeks ago but it takes 3-4 months before we know if its worked properly.

can't believe some of you are back in the saddle already bfing and bum wiping have killed my libido stone dead!

i am going old school and getting a cap at my 6 week check, the doctor says she can't remember the last time she fitted one. i am not looking forward to anyone foraging about in my nethers though.

Babymuma there was a bit of action in our house too last night.

It took us ages to get back into the swing of things after dd1 and if truth be told we never really got into doing it regularly which is why DD2 was such a surprise.

I'm getting a coil fitted this week so you can all hear about the gory details if you like.

Excessive use of the word seems there!!

If I didn't have so much hair anyway I think I'd be bald the ammount thats falling out! Unfortunately there is still an ugly betty thing going on unless I straighten it, and the time for that is minimal

Feeding seems to have settled down a bit now, and he seems to be having 7/8oz every 4 hours 6am til 6pm. Back on the Infacol for a bit as well, which seems to have helped more than it did when we tried it before. So hoping that lasts!

hi everyone.

just a flying vist unfortunatly. hopefuly i will have time to come on and post in the next day or two.

me and DH finally BDed again for the first time since i gave birth 10week ago. (obv we arn't trying for another one jus yet tho).
but also as my AF came back this morning.

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