First time mum here and my baby boy on Monday which im over the moon about. However am finding these first couple of days really difficult- I don't think I've had a block of sleep longer than 20 mins since labour started at 1.30 Monday morn. I'm also really struggling with feeding and feeling a huge amount of guilt. It's just impossible to get dis to latch on - I saw so many midwives and bf helpers in the post natal ward who managed to shove him on and everytime it was so painful. I managed to a do a big feed by myself last night and I was in tears by the end of it as it hurt so much and my nipple is now covered in blisters. Bf councillor came over today and after an hour of unsuccessfully getting him to latch on she thinks he might be tongue tied. As a short term measure I've been expressing and feeding him with a spoon to avoid nipple confusion in case we can figure out how to latch on successfully. I'm just frustrated as my stitches are still really painful to sit on and my breasts are sooo tender so dp has to help me with the spoon feeding - I feel terrible about this as I feel so dependant on him and it just takes so long to pump and then spoon feed. Wondered if anyone has had a similar experience and can offer any advice? If we can't go back to breast feeding will bottle feed expressed milk.
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Cinnamon84 · 18/08/2016 08:55
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