Hi guys I don't know if I've posted this in the right place so apologies if I have.
I'm a maid of honor in September and the hen night us booked 4 weeks after my due date.
My husband is also the best man and the stag do is the exact same night.
We both feel this is too soon after our baby will be born. We don't want to be finding a babysitter so soon after the baby is born for several reasons but we have tried explaining the issues with them and all they reply is we will be fine we will sort something out. I for one know I won't be feeling like having such a crazy night so soon after giving birth and hubby has said he doesn't want to go incase there was ever a emergency. (Stag is out of town) so it would be difficult for him to get home if there was. I had quite a traumatic birth with my first which could result in similar issues following this one too. Are we being unreasonable in saying we cannot attend these nights out being a big part of their wedding day? Or should at least one of us just bloody go? We don't want to fall out with them but we feel like if they carry on pushing us to go we will. There not exactly planning a few drinks these nights out are planned to be long and a bit crazy (lots of drinking, early start, late finish) both out of town. Please help
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cheekymummy89 · 17/06/2016 18:27
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