Should I be contributing to things like NHS, rubbish collection, policing, education etc (not necessarily in that order of importance) and the economy as a whole, by paying tax if it is physically possible for me to work?
I am not claiming any benefits or tax credits as DH has a well enough paid job. We don't need more money to live as a family.
But now I'm wondering if this is a moral/political question I should be asking myself.
On the other hand, I feel my children benefit from having someone who loves them, there for them after school, who does reading/extra homework with them as well as teaching them general lessons about life. I don't want someone else to do this for me, I want to do it myself and feel that I know it is being done properly.
I could work while they are at school if I was lucky enough to find a job that is only til 3pm, but then they would have to be in childcare during school holidays. I want them to be with someone who loves them for as much of the time as possible and don't know if the cost of childcare would make it not worth having the job. I don't have huge earning potential with my skills/experience. Would I be paying much tax anyway with a part time job only earning a mediocre wage?
Then there is the reason I gave up my part time job (part time since having the children). I gave up because I felt stressed from rushing about and trying to think about lots of things at once and feeling tired all the time. These things were making me really bad tempered with my kids and I didn't feel like a good mother. I gave up work to concentrate just on the one job of being a mother so that I could try to get better at that. Maybe some people can cope with the stress and tiredness without becoming more bad tempered with their kids. I admire them. Maybe I could do this now too because I am in a much more emotionally healthy state than I was when I gave up work. I don't know, and guess I can't know unless I try it.
Sorry this is long winded, but I would appreciate anyone's thoughts on this because I'm feeling guilty about not contributing to the economy and don't know if I should feel guilty or not!
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Is it my duty to get a job and pay tax now both children are at school?
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OrdinarySAHM · 06/05/2010 11:19
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