Christmas is not too far away and although we do not subscribe to any faith, we have always done the traditional thing by giving gifts to each other. This year our dd will be 3 and she is already talking about things like santa and presents. I feel a bit strange about this, and my dh thinks I am going bonkers! The thing is, I can remember how I felt when I found out (from a rather nasty little boy at school when I was 6) that the whole thing is a complete lie. I felt particularly bad towards my mum, who had gone to great lengths to keep the belief going, and badly let down by all the co-conspirators in my family. I know it is supposed to be a magical time for children but Im having a hard time with the dishonesty of being upbeat about santa coming etc. Soon there will be questions about how he gets round everybodys houses all in one night and I know I wont do well. Clearly, I need to lighten up and go with the flow, but Im trying to teach dd about honesty at the moment (she has started telling little fibs like no, she didnt spill paint on the carpet, it was daddy!)I think Im really asking, are there such things as good lies and bad lies?
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a philosophical question about Father Christmas
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oliviasmummy · 05/10/2006 14:19
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