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Is anyone Methodist?

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HellesBellesThinksSometimes Mon 06-Jan-14 18:16:14

Some babies take communion as their first solids. It truly is open to all.

HellesBellesThinksSometimes Mon 06-Jan-14 18:14:25

Re alcohol and gambling. These are not permitted on church property.

Our church is based in a community centre so we do have a raffle though we never have alcohol as a prize.

Our communion wine is - unusually - alcoholic (as out minister says 'just ordinary wine and ordinary bread) but when we attend elsewhere it is non-alcoholic and tastes foul

There are not the same prohibitions against private drinking or gambling as there were. It's more that we don't go too far. We don't get drunk. We don't go to bookmakers - the raffle really is the limit!

Ragwort Mon 06-Jan-14 09:22:56

Chance - I'm not sure it's necessarily the 'lack of drink' at Church social events, more the fact that many people just won't turn up at any 'Church based' activity at all. Some people make a 'judgement' about the activity before even attending it. We had similar at a lot of Anglican social events, where alcohol was served grin.

molding - in my experience everyone is welcome to take communion at a Methodist church, whether you are confirmed or not. My child has always taken communion. I was formally 'transferred' from CoE into the Methodist faith but I don't believe this is essential.

ChancetoDance Mon 06-Jan-14 08:38:47

Absolutely Ragwort - the "Methodists" have a great time at events without a drink. It's when we try to arrange things for the wider community that it becomes an issue. e.g. asking parent and tots group to come to the quiz/barn dance/Christmas disco

moldingsunbeams Mon 06-Jan-14 08:34:32

X post thanks Ragwort.

moldingsunbeams Mon 06-Jan-14 08:32:14

Thanks chance, not a drinker and dont gamble so that's not an issue smile

So anyone can take communion? Even if they are originally of another faith? Do children go up?

If dd is baptised and confirmed does she need to do anything specific if she was to remain with the methodist church?

Ragwort Mon 06-Jan-14 08:29:13

I have attended Methodist Churches for many years and have always received a very warm welcome. The style of worship really suits me and I like the approach of the practical help in the community.

The drinking/gambling is not really a problem grin - most Methodists I know drink away from Church! We still manage to raise lots of money when necessary and have fun at social events without a drink smile.

ChancetoDance Mon 06-Jan-14 08:23:24

In addition to Helles info which is very accurate IME, a key practical difference for many people is the attitude to alcohol and gambling.

Methodists don't drink. Although it is certainly true that some in a Methodist congregation will take alcohol privately and are generally not judged for it, once baptised they "shouldn't" IYSWIM. You will never find drink at a Methodist church quiz night for example. For Catholics it seems practically compulsory grin

Same with gambling. Most people barely recognise a raffle, or guess the weight of the cake a gambling, but they won't be used to raise funds at a Methodist church fayre.

Seem like tiny issues (which they are and there are good reasons behind them) but strangely "big" when you're trying to organise events. e.g dry barn dance? Church people come and enjoy it but it's very hard to persuade others that they could possibly have fun! Even for quizzes etc, it really restricts the market.

moldingsunbeams Mon 06-Jan-14 08:10:38

Hellesbelles thank you that is very helpful, as a single divorced parent I wasn't judged at all , I was accepted for who I was, I was made welcome, I was guided all the way to make sure we were comfortable with what would happen next.

Its for dd mostly, in the church we have been attending no one has ever even said hello, no one talks at the coffee session, dd wasn't even told where to go for Sunday school they just left her.

this church she's welcomed by name from day one with a hug, they made a huge effort to come say hello and guide her and make sure she knows whats happening when.

Plus they ply her with endless cake and biscuits which always helps grin

She has mild sen and its first time she has happily gone off to another room without worrying.

HellesBellesThinksSometimes Sun 05-Jan-14 18:28:06

Sunbeams - if you feel more comfortable and able to address your christianity with the methodist church, then that is where God is telling you to be.

HellesBellesThinksSometimes Sun 05-Jan-14 18:26:42

I am a methodist worship leader. The differences are tiny.

The Lord's table is open to all but we do not take communion every week. The main differences are around who runs services.

Most services are taken by local preachers with the support of worship leaders. A minister will have several churches to which s/he administers communion and leads bible srudies, church meetings and the annual covenant service.

A worship leader is assigned to a particular church and will usually take a part of a service such as the opening prayer or the prayers of intercession. They may also be assigned the bible readings. They cannot preach. If no local preacher is available, the worship leader will put together a service which, in the place of a sermon, will include testimonies, meditations, discussions or activities.

A local preacher belongs to a circuit - a group of churches - and will attend different ones in order to preach. They can take every aspect of a service except Communion. The local preacher undertakes a sort of apprenticeship to become a local preacher.

A methodist minister has previously been a local preacher and adds to the experience they have gained with their training. They move every few years.

There is a stronger emphasis on bible study in the methodist church than when I belonged to the CofE and we do a lot more together as a church community than I was aware of with my previous churches. Perhaps, though, these are mainly differences in the congregations rather than between the religions.

moldingsunbeams Sat 04-Jan-14 18:27:06

Can you talk to me about it if so, might be a bit complicated as I am baptised C of E but do not really go and DD is Catholic but is rather struggling with it all at the moment!

We both really dislike our local Catholic Church for a variety of reasons.

We have been attending messy church at the local Methodist Church near home for a while and the family services, my ancestors were Methodist and this was their church a 100 years ago and honestly we both feel really comfortable there.

It is also in my view a great benefit to the community, they welcome the everyone, they work in the local area with vulnerable, they ran a Christmas meal on Christmas day for those with no family to go to. They give back to the community all the time.

I have been struggling with dds church for a while, neither of us feel welcome at dds church and I have felt like it does not really give anything to the local area at all.

Other than Communion which I understand the difference of what are the other differences?

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