Since I was born, it was put upon me that I must believe in God, Jesus etc. Had to go to church all the time, have been through confirmation, christening, even church wedding - all my parents and my family ever wanted. That was in Croatia, where majority of the nation is Roman Catholic... Anyway, came to the UK where there is more of a freedom in what you believe and even though I tried believing, I simply can't. To be honest, didn't really have any reason to believe - my childhood was crap, I was bullied in school for about 7-8 years, and basically too many things in my life went wrong - never had an easy ride for anything. And it was set in stone when I had two miscarriages before dd (incompetent cervix) - where was this guardian angel of mine? After all that I decided to be open minded and if I chose not to believe in anything, then so be it, my decision. My whole family frowns upon the fact I never christened our dd and that I am an embarasement to them... They also hate my gay friend as that's "not accepted and not normal" (makes me so angry!). All this never really bothered me, until now. We're moving to Croatia, and I know this will cause endless arguments between me and my family, I'm already getting a headache. I'm also quite insecure due to bullying and generally fall under my parents' thumb, and do what they decide for me (I'm 29 btw). My dh says I should ignore them, but I still worry. I want my choice to remain my choice whether they like it or not, and leave a window of opportunity for my kids to choose their own religion if they wish. I don't think it's my right to try and raise them as something I (don't) believe in. Please advise, and no offence to any religions and any believers. I accept people's choices and I feel they should accpet mine - why is this so difficult???
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