Now, I may just be upset because I'm pregnant and hormonal so please bear in mind!
We have a labrador who we got a month ago. We are taking him to puppy training and he is making progress. There are hardly any accidents in the house and he can obey simple commands like sit. The walking is tricky as he pulls so much and so we are now using a Gentle Leader.
However, this weekend I have found the adjustment in our lives to accomodate him very difficult and have cried loads. I resent the fact that the children can't leave their toys out (he chews them) and that I always have to watch him with them as otherwise he gets overexcited and jumps up at them (dd is 3 and he can knock her over). He has an 'area' at the back of the house where we can shut him behind a stair gate and I end up having to put him there a lot more than I would really want (it is by the back door and he goes in the garden a lot).
He is so bouncy that I am finding it really draining. The baby isn't due till September but already I am finding the thought of combining caring for a newborn (+ 2 other children) and the dog overwhelming. Plus we are having an extension built in the spring. We knew all this when we decided to get him but I suppose what I didn't know was how draining I was going to find looking after him.
I am not trying to justify rehoming him - dh and the children really love him. And I do like him too! I'm just very tired and very stressed. Dh has had loads of hassle at work recently plus mil whom we see weekly has got cancer. This dog feels like one problem too many.
I suppose what I am really hoping to find out from you wise mumsnetters is how long this difficult period lasts. Months? Years? And is it normal for me to feel this?
I really want to skips ahead a couple of years and have this happy, settled family pet.
Please, please - any words of advise or reassurance greatly appreciated.
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cupcakes · 20/02/2006 13:49
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