I am a newbie to parties. DD will be 4 early next year (yes, I know, I'm uber organised but I like time to plan these things). We are going to the the party thing for the first time. We will invite all of her nursery class as this is the done thing (about 11 altogether) and friends from outside nursery (not sure how many will come, but will invite about 15 - 20).
I was looking into the whole entertainer thing, then at the going out for a meal vs in a local hall, then in the getting someone to do it all for me, then, today DD went to her first birthday party. They had entertainment, they were good and the children enjoyed it, but I sort of thought 'I could do that'. Am I kidding myself? And would I miss all the fun of DDs party to run it myself?
Was thinking I think my Dad has an amp, so could plug a microphone into that so I don't have to shout too much and could do a proper old school jelly and ice cream retro themed party (OK, the theme is just for me, I do like a theme to work to!). Could play party games like pass the parcel etc. No one round here seems to do that any more, it has to be an entertainer/out somewhere. It's quite an affluent area so I assume they don't want to. I don't want it to come off like the poor party and look who can't afford to do a 'proper' party (we could) but I wonder if DD might like this more. She didn't like the loud noise at the party today and is quite a gentle girl who doesn't like being put on the spot and is hesitant at joining in things. I wonder if an entertainer would just be too much for her. She loves parachute games and pass the parcel type things.
Now, is it one of those things where it looks alot easier than it is running a 4 YOs party . There will be alot of friends and parents there to laugh at me see me look ridiculous wine may be needed .
I sort of like the idea of organising it (I'm a control freak) but it sort of fills me with dread too.
I'm currently imagining roping in family - maybe MIL and Sister doing face painting on arrival with toys and colouring in in a hall. My Dad is musical so maybe he can play the piano in the background so the children can jump around and dance a bit. Then do 45 mins of party games, then a tea, then some parachute games and pass the parcel and then home.
This is all going to go hideously wrong isn't it . Am I silly to contemplate such a thing?
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thinking about doing the entertainment at DDs 4th birthday party. Am I barmy?!
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Reastie · 26/07/2014 18:38
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