Dh leaves for work at 7.30 am. In the morning he only has a brief chat with dd1 and dd2, if they're awake this early. At night he comes home around 6 pm. He chats to them while getting changed, then we all have dinner together, then he helps with bathtime/putting pyjamas on, then he reads dd1 a story (dd2 insists on me, but one day she'll hopefully join into this routine.). By then it's about 7.15 pm. So he doesn't really see them an awful lot... I always have visions of all these fathers up and down the country who spent hours after work in meaningful play with their offspring. What's the reality like?
PS: At the weekend we're normally together as a family all the time, even though dh IMO doesn't "interact" enough with the children. He'll chat to them, do a bit of rough and tumble or whatever, but never does playdough or playing with any other of their toys with them. I don't think his parents really played with him, so he doesn't know how to/doesn't see the need. Gets to me sometimes. Also I think he'd find it easier to play with them if we had boys with boys' toys, not Barbie and Baby Annabel and all that.
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How much "quality time" does your dh have with the children per day?
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emkana · 14/07/2005 19:19
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